Teens transform struggle into support network

Pari Patel and Sophie Vasic met at Marvin Ridge High as freshmen and never imagined a lunch table conversation two years later would grow into a nonprofit that could save lives. By junior year, the two 17-year-olds realized they were confronting struggles many of their peers silently face. That realization led to Love Everybody, a nonprofit that raises awareness about eating disorders, connects people with resources and offers mentorship.

The organization’s name is a play on words: Love Every Body emphasizes body positivity, while Love Everybody reflects their mission to support anyone struggling, regardless of shape, size or background.

“When we realized we both had similar struggles, it made us think about how many other people around us are suffering in silence,” Pari said. Sophie added, “It was surprising and relieving to know I wasn’t alone. That realization became the foundation of what we wanted to do.”

Eating disorders affect people of all ages and backgrounds, yet they often go unnoticed. Each year, an estimated 10,000–10,200 deaths in the U.S. are linked to eating disorders, according to major mental health organizations. Through Love Everybody, Pari and Sophie connect peers to professional support, including the Renfrew Center in Charlotte and the Emily Program, which provides information on treatment options.

“We can’t provide clinical care ourselves,” Sophie said, “but we make sure people can access the best support available.”

Maintaining healthy habits and preventing relapse are central to their mission.

“Even when you’re supposed to be fully recovered, disordered thoughts can appear,” Pari said. “It’s important to notice them early and shift your mindset before they take over.”

“One thing we do when we catch the signs,” Sophie added, “is remind each other how fortunate we are to move and eat normally. It keeps us grounded and supports our recovery,” a technique that encourages mindfulness, positive thinking, and peer support.

Mentorship and community support are key.

“People with eating disorders are more likely to seek treatment when they have guidance and companionship,” Pari said. Their nonprofit offers in-person support, messaging, and an upcoming anonymous tip line. They also maintain an Instagram presence at @loveEverybody2026.

Their career paths are deeply personal, shaped by both experience and academics. Inspired by a teacher battling cancer, Pari plans to pursue nursing with a focus on oncology.

“I want to be there for patients not just medically, but emotionally,” she said.

Sophie, motivated by her older sister’s struggles, aims for a PhD in clinical psychology.

“Seeing my sister go through challenges made me want to help others,” Sophie said. “I want to understand the mind and give people the support they need.”

Both students credit Marvin Ridge High and South Piedmont Community College for preparing them academically.

“Taking college-level classes like biology and literature gave us confidence and discipline,” Sophie said. “It made us feel ready for the challenges ahead.” Pari added, “Balancing high school, college courses, and running a nonprofit has taught me resilience and time management, skills I’ll carry into nursing and beyond.”

Asked what they hope people take away from Love Everybody, both speak with clarity.

“You’re not alone,” Pari said. Sophie added, “Even if you feel like your struggles aren’t serious, reach out. Early support can make all the difference.”

Pari and Sophie show that high school can be more than a place to learn. Their nonprofit work, academic achievements, and personal advocacy build empathy, leadership, and real-world impact. At Marvin Ridge, these two seniors aren’t just preparing for college—they’re shaping a legacy of awareness, understanding, and hope.

If you or someone you know is struggling with disordered eating, you can also contact the National Alliance for Eating Disorders helpline at 1-866-662-1235, Monday–Friday, 9 a.m.–7 p.m., to speak with a confidential therapist for support and resources. Students are also encouraged to reach out to their school counselor for help.